Really Nice Guy Vs. Good In Bed? Pure Motives?

Here's where you can click to get all caught up on RNG vs. GIB.  Mr. Really Nice Guy? Well, he's still really nice. Maybe too nice? Four dates in and he's already showing the googly love eyes. No! No! No! Nothing makes me flee faster than a man who falls in love with me- too fast. And although he's nice, he's 36 and unaccomplished. I seriously can't figure out what he's been doing for the past 18 years since high school? It's certainly not getting his bachelors degree. I found out last night he's 12 hours shy. Ugh. I feel a bit misled. I had assumed the college he graduated from was a university, not a JC. There I go assuming. And this makes me sound like an elitist snob... But, here I go. He has a crappy job, no degree, no direction, no friends, a one bedroom apartment, a bankruptcy and no life. I guess he's just waiting for me to fill that gap? He's itching to get married and have a family No thank you. If i wanted a child right now to raise and send to college, I'd birth one. At least I'd have 18 years to figure out how I am going to pay for it.

And yet he's cute and nice. Another worry... Our 2 hour make out session? Barely even grazed second base and this only because I physically placed his hands on my boobs. Seriously? The last guy I dated didn't want to have sex prior to marriage. I respected that decision, but what really bothered me... He didn't even seem tempted. And that's how the "RNG" makes me feel. I'm no Cindy Crawford (circa 1995), but I'm a fairly hot piece of ass... Holding to my mantra that "sexy is half what you've got, and half what you think you've got." How could he resist trying to "tap" this. Blah, blah,blah... He's just being a gentleman... Whatever! It's the ladies job to ward off any unwelcome advances. Let me do my job, dammit!

So having said all this, I believe I will use him as a wedding date next weekend and for one more marathon make out session. And then, "hasta la vista". Back to the drawing board. And GIB (good in bed)? He canceled our date. Humph. At least with him there is no ambiguity about his true interest? It's evident. And that's somehow comforting.